Sweden is one of the most beautiful countries in Europe known for it's immaculate cleanliness and crystal blue water. it has produced many famous pop groups the most famous being ABBA.
It also ranks as one of the least corrupt countries with the percentage being as low as 2%. The country is known for its very supportive government that supports it's citizens with 100% free medical and education facilities. It has lucrative options for research and enginerring fields which is now attracting many foreigners. The local language is Swedish, but Scandinavians are very open to English.
The Swedes are generally very honest and friendly people and are a pleasure to get along with. However, there could be certain mistakes that we could make while dealing with them that could put us a bit on the offensive. Let's take a quick look as to what are the mistakes we could avoid in Sweden:
1. Don't Assume All Swedes Speak English
English might be a universal language, but don’t expect to hear your mother tongue in most parts of Europe. In fact, you can only be guaranteed to hear English in the UK, but it is certainly not the predominant language in Sweden. This is not to say that Swedes can not speak English, but keep in mind that this is not their native language. Whatever you do, when you encounter a non-native English speaker in Sweden, do not raise your voice and speak more slowly to them as if they were raised in the back of a chicken coop. Learn a few basic Swedish phrases instead.
2. Don't Use Highly Animated Body Language
Many non-Scandinavians don’t realize how animated they can be in a conversation. And the more animated they get, the more excited they get, as can be overheard in many a conversation. This is the quickest way to irritate the locals, and you can expect to be gently reprimanded if your voice carries over to the next table. When you see a Swede unconsciously turning their body away from you, or shade their eyes as if they are blocking out the sun, take this as your cue; it’s you they’re trying to ward off.
3. Don't Feel Pressured by Silence
What you may perceive as an awkward silence, a Swede will perceive as a comfortable pause. “Don’t say what you mean, mean what you say” aptly describes the way of a Swedish conversation. Swedes are direct communicators and every word is calculated to carry a meaning across. You will hardly ever overhear conversations that are filled with social pleasantries and small talk, so don’t rush to fill the gap simply because you are used to keeping up constant chatter back home.
4. Don't Educate/Lecture the Swedes
This can come across as extremely arrogant, whether you mean to or not. Don’t assume that because Sweden is a neutral entity, Swedes are uninformed about the political complexities that go on in other countries. You will actually find the Swedes read a lot and take their education pretty seriously even from a young age. This is not to say that you cannot indulge them with interesting snippets about your homeland, but don't be confrontational or look like a foreign know-it-all.
5. Don't Talk Down the Vasa Ship
The medieval Vasa Ship in Stockholm is a matter of national and historic pride. As far as Swedes (and now you, too) are concerned, it is the greatest engineering feat of mankind. Or at least, medieval-kind. It is like the Eiffel Tower is for the French.
6. Don't Ignore Personal Space
The Swedes love their personal space. They are not touchy-feely by nature. In fact, don’t even stand too close at the cash register in a shop. Don’t sit next to someone on a bus if there is an open seat just for you elsewhere. Think about it; if a complete stranger sits next to you in an empty bus, wouldn’t you too feel uncomfortable…or perhaps cling onto your handbag for dear life and look for the nearest escape route?
7. Don't Get Decaf
Learn to enjoy coffee in Sweden – do not ask for a decaf substitute, it's awful and not always available. Coffee and cinnamon buns might as well be the society glue, giving people a reason to get together and be social especially in Stockholm.
8. Don't put down Swedish Beer…Or Anything Else
9. Don't Mention the Finnish Ice Hockey Team
When you are in Sweden, you support the Swedish Hockey team. End of story. This is the safest option, unless you want to start an argument. Don’t mention any other hockey teams. For the time being, you are a Swedish hockey patriot! The Swedes and the Finns have a long and complex history, so anyone not from Sweden or Finland , please understand the same and leave it at that!
10. Don't be Flashy
Americans and Asians please take a note 😉 Your trip might not be about making friends, but if you come to Sweden as the cast of Jersey Shore, you are in for a world of avoidance. The social filters will go up and your new local acquaintances will try to avoid you like the plague. In Sweden, everything is done in moderation, from everyday clothing to late night clubbing in Stockholm. People have fun, but just enough without making a nuisance for everybody. Remember that loud antagonizer at your local bar? You won’t find them here, so considering this inclination towards moderation a blessing.
About the Swedes…
Swedes have their own unique quirks that make the country what it is. The Swedes are predominantly upper middle class, and boasts the most far reaching security system in the world. They are proud people regarding both their nationality and towns, and you will find many Swedes patriotic.
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